Opening Your Gifts

"Am I just making this up?"

This is the question I hear most often — and it's the one I consider the most important. The honest answer is: at first, you genuinely can't always tell. That's not a flaw in you. That's the beginning of the work.

Here's what I've noticed over years of teaching: imagination tends to be all over the place. It wants something — it pushes, it performs, it tries to impress. Intuitive information tends to arrive quietly, without agenda, and often surprises you. It doesn't care whether you believe it.

The way you learn to tell the difference is by paying attention over time. You write things down. You notice what turns out to be accurate. You build a relationship with your own inner knowing — slowly, honestly, without forcing it.

You are not making it up. You are learning to listen.

"Is this dangerous?"

This fear is real, and I  take it seriously. The short answer is: developing your intuition in a grounded, intentional way is not dangerous. What can cause problems is rushing, working without guidance, or approaching this work from a place of fear rather than love. You must learn to ground well, regularly, and protect your nervous system.

Think of it like learning to drive. The road isn't inherently dangerous — but you want to learn with someone who knows what they're doing, in conditions that are safe, before you take the highway alone.

My approach is always grounded in light, in love, and in Spirit. My goal is to teache students to work from a place of protection and clarity — not from fear, and not from ego. That foundation makes all the difference.

Light-centered, grounded development is safe. You don't have to go it alone.

"I don't think I'm ready — or spiritual enough."

I have never met anyone who was "not spiritual enough" to begin. I have met many people who were afraid, people who were skeptical, people who had been told their whole lives that what they experienced wasn't real. All of them were ready.

You don't need a special background, a particular religion, or years of meditation practice. You don't need to have had a dramatic experience. You don't need to be certain.

What you need is curiosity and a willingness to show up. And also--know WHY you wish to learn more about psychic or mediumship---really any energy work. Spirit always meets you where you are — not where you think you should be.

You don't have to earn this. You already belong here.

"I don't know where to start."

The simplest starting point is also the most powerful: begin noticing. Not analyzing, not judging — just noticing. The impression that arrives before you have time to think. The feeling when you walk into a room. The knowing before the phone rings.

Write it down. Don't evaluate it yet. Just collect it. Over weeks and months, patterns emerge — and those patterns are the beginning of your own language with Spirit.

From there, finding a teacher or a small development group makes an enormous difference. Not because you can't do this alone, but because this work opens faster and more safely in community — with someone who can help you understand what you're experiencing.

Start by noticing. Everything else grows from there.